Holding your partner’s hand during a fight is the simplest and most powerful fighting hack that I’ve discovered. It might just change the way you and your partner argue, forever. Here’s how it’s done: reach for your partner’s hand when things are getting heated in the middle of an argument. Hold it as the fight continues. Change nothing else. This may sound bizarre, but the impact of this small gesture is nothing short of magical.
When arguing with your significant other, do it with the confidence of knowing you’ll find a resolution.
If you’re working from the same set of facts, then you’ll arrive at the same conclusion. Arguing is one way couples share facts.